Hello! We are Phineas and Isabella, a thirty-something couple in California trying to successfully build a monogamish life. Since you’ll be getting to read about our scintillating adventures on this blog, it’s probably helpful to start by telling our story of how we ended up here.

Through our past relationships, we discovered that we both value sexual compatibility and view sex as a deeply emotional, bonding act. And yet, from the beginning, we knew that we wanted to continue to explore our fantasies and sexual desires and that strict monogamy was not something we desired. This blog serves as a way for us to share our experiences with building our own monogamish lifestyle, including the experiences that brought us here, the strategies we use to make this relationship work for us, and the stories of our journey.